My mom and I cried in a scene of a movie we watched recently. A father who had pushed his son to the limits pursuing his own dream finally realizes the damage he had done to their relationship. The father apologized to his son, and the son forgave his father. There is such power in confession that even a fiction movie can bring us to tears.
One of the Psalms that is completely focused on confession is Psalm 51. This Psalm was written after David was confronted by Nathan, a prophet, for his transgressions of adultery and murder. David penned his confession and repentance before God.
Psalm 51:1-2
Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin.
David could have confessed in his own heart. Instead, he wrote his prayer for all to see. He wanted Israel and the world to know that he was repentant of all that he had done. He did not want to hide it any longer. David was willing to bring all the evil to light so that he could be restored to the Lord.
Psalm 51:9
Hide your face from my sins and blot out all my iniquity.
David’s transparency before God does not stop in only asking for mercy but also continues by asking for help to transform his life.
Psalm 51:10
Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
Through the centuries, many believers have turned to this psalm to give words to their own confession and repentance. David’s willingness to finally acknowledge his sin paved the way for others to speak their need of mercy from God as well. In our honesty before the Lord and others, we create a place where others can witness repentance and give them courage to admit their sins and find the mercy of God so desperately needed by us all.
James 5:16
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
Confession to others is a spiritual principle. It calls us to accountability. It leads to true fellowship with God and others.
1 John 1:5-7
This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.
Hidden sin keeps us out of fellowship with God and others. Confession of sin not only restores us in relationship with the Lord but it actually deepens our relationship with others. It is the dark places in our lives that hinder fellowship. But when we acknowledge those dark places and choose to bring them into the light, we step into true community.
Too often, we ignore or pretend there is no sin in our lives. Sometimes, we fool others but often people know that more is going on behind the scenes. No matter, the Lord knows what is going on in those dark places of our hearts.
1 John 1:8-10
If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us.
When we confess our sins, we are forgiven. When we hide our sins, we become deceived about who we are, we put lies on God, and we lose the working of the Word in our lives. The difficulty of facing the truth and confessing sin is better than facing the loss of relationship with not only God but our true selves which is lost to our deception.
David acknowledged his transgressions to not only be restored to the Lord and to transformed, but also to achieve an even greater purpose.
Psalm 51:13
Then I will teach transgressors your ways, so that sinners will turn back to you.
David was now choosing to share his sin, his past so that other lives could be changed. When we walk in the light, we can share the darkness of our past without shame. We can let others know that there is hope for their forgiveness and transformation as well. Lives are changed when we choose to confess and share God’s mercy in our live to those around us. The final point of forgiveness is not just for ourselves but for others to find freedom as well.
David’s sin and honesty before God has ministered to people for thousands of years. We all know that if a man after God’s own heart can fail and then find redemption then we, too, have hope for our lives as well. Transparency leads to transformation in ourselves and others.