The Pain of Christmas

The Pain of Christmas

The entrance of Jesus into this world was beginning of His entrance into all the mess of our lives. He left the perfection in heaver in order to subject Himself to our shame, loneliness, dysfunction, poverty, prejudice, tragedy so that He could join us in our suffering. He bore all the effects of the curse in our lives from the moment He was born until He died on the cross. He entered the pain of Christmas so that we may find life because of Christmas.

A Lonely Birth

A Lonely Birth

There is a stark contrast between the birth of John and the birth of Jesus. People came to celebrate with Zechariah and Elizabeth, friends were all around.

When it was time for Elizabeth to have her baby, she gave birth to a son. Her neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had shown her great mercy, and they shared her joy. (Luke 1:57-58)

However, Mary and Joseph were alone.

While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them. (Luke 2:6-7)

How lonely that must have been, no friends or family to celebrate. I cannot even imagine the trepidation in a young mother’s heart, and she had to face this new journey all by herself, no mother or aunts to guide and encourage her. How defeating it would be for Joseph to put his son in a feeding trough. It was painful and discouraging time when it should have been one of rejoicing.

God knew they needed encouragement, especially Mary. He knew the rumors, rejection, shame she had experienced. Even Joseph had questioned her integrity.

This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. (Matthew 1:18-19)

An angelic visitation through a dream stopped Joseph from sending Mary away. Others would have assumed the worst of Mary and believed she had a tainted reputation. Yet, God defended His precious Mary to Joseph. They obeyed the Lord. However, their obedience did not lead to family parties and celebrations. Instead, their obedience led them to a city, filled with strangers, with no place to stay, and having to place a newborn in a manger.

God knew these faithful, obedient yet lonely followers needed some encouragement.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”  Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”  When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.” So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger.

Don’t glance over these verses. See them afresh from the viewpoint of a lonely couple, brand-new parents, who needed an encouraging word. They are alone. Their newborn son is asleep in a feeding trough. Suddenly, they hear a voice of a loud, boisterous crowd. A group of shepherds burst onto the scene. They are so excited; Mary and Joseph can hardly catch the story between all of them talking. Finally, one shepherd recounts the glorious events. Mary and Joseph realize that angels from heaven were sent to give the birth announcement of their son! Imagine their hearts filling with joy as they realize that God saw them exactly where they were! The Lord knew they needed encouragement so He sent the shepherds with the good news. Mary and Joseph were not forgotten.

How healing these words would have been for Mary who had already suffered in her hometown. Mary had probably heard terrible reports spread about her concerning the circumstances around her pregnancy. Here in Bethlehem, God allows good news to circulate.

When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. (Luke 2:17-18)

God sees our lonely, distressed hearts. The Lord will not leave us. He will send forth a word to comfort and encourage us. God sees you and me, right where we are. He knows what we are going through. Even in the most unlikely ways, the Lord will find a way to send forth a message of hope for us to hold onto, just like Mary did.

But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. (Luke 2:19)

Treasure the encouraging moments in the heart. They are a source of strength for difficult times in the future. For now, know that God sees us and will encourage us.

God is with us even if others have abandoned us completely. His heart is full of love. The proof of His love was lying in a manger, Emmanuel, God with us. He left the glories of heaven to be close to each one us. Take to heart His encouragement today.

The Trust of the Shepherds

The Trust of the Shepherds

My grandmother would never leave the house if the laundry machine was still washing. Decades earlier, her washing machine leaked when she ran to the store. From that day on, she decided to never leave the house until the wash was done. She would never trust a laundry machine again.

I would chuckle at my grandfather waiting impatiently for the wash cycle to end so we could go places. Yet, I have to admit, I am often like my grandma. I do not know if I can really trust what is left behind. My obsession does not include washing machines. Instead, I show my lack of trust in the Lord to handle situations if I have to leave them behind. Surely, the God of the universe needs my help in “fixing” circumstances or “helping” people.

God does not need our assistance. If He tells us to go or to do something, we have to trust He is able to take us where He wants us to be as well as take care of who or what we leave behind. The shepherds are a great example of a group of people who trusted God to take care of what they had to leave.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”  Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”  When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”  So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. (Luke 2:8-17)

When the shepherds went to Bethlehem, they had to trust God to care for their sheep. They left the most helpless animal behind in order to do what God had told them to do. The shepherds had to trust the Lord to protect the sheep when they left the sheep behind. The sheep were their livelihood. Each sheep represented a paycheck. The shepherds had to trust God that He was their provision when they left their sheep behind. Their work as shepherds was to be with sheep. They had to trust God with their reputation and what others would say when they left their sheep behind.

The Lord will watch over whatever or whoever we leave behind to follow His will. What have we been called to do? How often have we talked ourselves out of obedience because of what we had to leave behind? It is not easy to leave but we must trust God, for not only where we are going but also for what we are leaving behind.

When we leave things behind, God will provide for us. We can be assured that when we follow His plan, the Lord will take care of our needs. I heard Tony Evans once say, “Where God guides, He provides.” When we step out in faith in the place He leads us, God will take care of us in amazing ways! We must obey His will, despite who or what cannot come with us. We show our faith by believing and acting upon the truth that God alone is our provision.

When we leave people behind, God will defend us. Others may critique what we do, but God will have the final say. I watched a documentary of Hudson Taylor. He was criticized for his mission work and methods in China. He left behind the traditional methods of reaching people, even the traditional ways of dress for an Englishman. He cut his hair like a Chinese man and wore the native dress. It was scandalous at the time and many spoke against him. However, his ministry grew into one that still sends out missionaries today, hundreds of years after he began his work!

The shepherds left the sheep behind and encountered Jesus! Because they did, other lives were impacted as well.

When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. (Luke 2:8-18)

What or who is God telling us to leave behind? We must leave! When we do, we will encounter Jesus! Then, we will experience God’s miracle in and through our lives and others will be changed!

Lots of Angels

Lots of Angels

We see angels discussed often in the Bible. An angel guards the way to the Garden of Eden. An angel blocked the path of Balaam’s donkey. An angel came to Elijah and fed him. An angel closed the mouth of the lions for Daniel. An angel came to Zechariah to let him know that he and Elizabeth would have a baby in their advanced years. An angel came to Mary to announce that she would give birth to Jesus. An angel came to Cornelius and told him his prayers had been answered and to send for Peter. An angel freed Peter from prison. An angel struck Herod down and he died. An angel strengthened Paul when on a storm-tossed sea. And there are many other angel accounts in Scriptures.

Angels have done the bidding of the Lord throughout history. Usually, we see one angel on these different assignments. Notable exceptions are when the angels went up and down the ladder at Bethel before Jacob. Also, a group of angels showed up to praise God after one angel delivered the message about the birth of Jesus.

However, there was a time when two angels were placed on assignment. We see the account of these two angels in the book of Genesis. These two angels were sent to Sodom and Gomorrah, the evil cities the Lord had determined to destroy. Yet, when I read this passage, I wondered why God sent two angels. One would have definitely been enough for the job. Why were two angels placed on this assignment? I believe the answer to this question reveals the heart of a loving and merciful God.

The two angels arrived at Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gateway of the city. When he saw them, he got up to meet them and bowed down with his face to the ground. “My lords,” he said, “please turn aside to your servant’s house. You can wash your feet and spend the night and then go on your way early in the morning.” (Genesis 19:1-2)

Lot was Abraham’s nephew. Abraham had asked the Lord to spare these cities if ten righteous people were found. Sadly, there were not ten. God, in His mercy, still chose to rescue Lot and his family. The two angels, who had form of men, came into Sodom and were welcomed into Lot’s house. That night, the angels warn Lot of what is to come.

The two men said to Lot, “Do you have anyone else here—sons-in-law, sons or daughters, or anyone else in the city who belongs to you? Get them out of here, because we are going to destroy this place. The outcry to the LORD against its people is so great that he has sent us to destroy it.” (Genesis 19:12b-13)

Lot had a wife and two daughters. His girls were betrothed to two men in the city. Lot tried to convince them to leave, but they thought Lot was foolish. Lot knew the cities would be destroyed; he believed the message of the angels. The next morning, the time had come for Sodom and Gomorrah to be annihilated.

With the coming of dawn, the angels urged Lot, saying, “Hurry! Take your wife and your two daughters who are here, or you will be swept away when the city is punished. (Genesis 19:15)

The angels exhort Lot to leave immediately with his family. However, Lot does not move quickly.

When he hesitated, the men grasped his hand and the hands of his wife and of his two daughters and led them safely out of the city, for the LORD was merciful to them. (Genesis 19:16)

Here is the reason I believe God sent two angels to Sodom and Gomorrah. Only one angel was needed to destroy the cities, however, two angels were needed to grasp the hands of four people who were hesitating to leave the area. One angel took the hands of two people, the other angel grasped the hands of the remaining two. Together, the two angels pulled four people out of the cities marked for destruction. How merciful is our God!

Whatever difficult situation you or your family may be facing, the Lord already has a plan to send exactly what you need to “yank” the ones in need out of the situation. He is not short on resources or supplies. He does not need extra help. He has already determined what is needed to have a successful rescue plan. He will take us by the hand and save us from the situation even if we do not readily or speedily cooperate. He is so good to us!

Wait a Little Longer

Wait a Little Longer

Kevin and I walked through a season of loss after loss. I cried out to the Lord and He took me to a surprising place to find comfort.

When he opened the fifth seal, I saw under the altar the souls of those who had been slain because of the word of God and the testimony they had maintained. They called out in a loud voice, “How long, Sovereign Lord, holy and true, until you judge the inhabitants of the earth and avenge our blood?” (Revelation 6:9-10)

Even in the perfection of heaven, there are prayers and questions concerning God’s timing. This realization brought great comfort to me. God completely understands our confusion about His decision on when He will answer prayers on earth.

We do not need to feel guilty in our cries of “how long” but we do need to think correctly about God’s character. The martyrs in these verses brought their question confidently before the Lord because they knew and trusted His character. God is sovereign, meaning He reigns over all. God is in charge. He is the Lord. He is the one who rules and reigns. God is holy. He is perfect, there is nothing that taints His character or diminishes His word. The Lord is true, there is nothing false in Him. Thus, He is completely trustworthy. Because the Lord is trustworthy, we can approach Him with our questions and know He will answer us.

Then each of them was given a white robe, and they were told to wait a little longer, (Revelation 6:11a)

Even in heaven, a specific timetable to prayers is not always shared. However, the Lord gives each one of them a gift and encourages them to hold on for a “little longer”. God does not abandon us in our time of waiting, in our time of wandering when the answer to our prayer will finally come. God gives us good things in the meantime and encourages us to wait until the answer does manifest.

God is your comfort and strength in the waiting. He will bring you close. These precious martyred saints were under the altar, near the throne of God. Our pain and loss draw us near to the Lord. He is concerned for us. He understands the hurts of our hearts. God knows all you have been through. Hold on a little longer. The Lord will answer our prayers in His time, His perfect time, His undisclosed time to us and even to heaven, but known by Him. His day of deliverance is coming. Hold on.